How can you change someone’s mind?

Erik Andersen
Nov 11, 2020

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Photo by Aarón Blanco Tejedor on Unsplash

The first step

Ponder whether you can change your own mind. And then be willing to be wrong.

If you approach any conversation with that mindset, people will naturally be more receptive to your message.

They’ll be less defensive

They’ll be more open

They’ll feel heard

The second step

Make the conversation safe. This often means one-on-one.

No one changes their mind on social media. Parties “on the fence” do not attend the massive political rallies

The environments can be so toxic, and people can get so aggressive, that people’s walls are naturally up

The result

Do this and suddenly you’re not a “salesman”, you’re just a friend trying to have a conversation.

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Erik Andersen
Erik Andersen

Written by Erik Andersen

Senior Software Engineer with 10+ years of experience. Also an independent coach, teacher, and public speaker. My opinions are my own

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